that complicated mind of theirs

There's currently a lot of lesson that ive learnt abt myself

toward the issue of liking someone

from the way i view it now

eventhough how much u know abt handling a problem

of relationship we will never be avoid them

cuz the key idea tat problem will always happen in relationship

Like even how i see myself sumtimes tryin to fix the problem

so hard can even end up to have one eventhough there isnt any

the way i see it now is tat we will always have to be patient abt wad

is currently happening eventhough we can sense tat problem is somehow

arising it is best to wait until we get the clear picture of wad goin on

sometimes i even wonder why do i hv to be so emotional attack

and tink negatively abt somethin tat is not even wad it is

i guess wen we rly like someone tis is wen we will always be blind

no matter how much we try to open our eyes and realize it

we will still be havin the problem

maybe because the problem is just there for us to solve it

and tat is how our love is tested

i can always admit that im just afraid to lose the person i cared so much

until she might not even stand for wad i hv been behaving

i guess from the problem arise we can now understand

and apply the mindset where
"in life we will need to be able to balance them in order to have the hapi life"

tis goes the same where relationship will never be a good one

wen there is an extreme to one side

just like if u care so much for the person tis will make u

tink abt all the negative thing and make urself worry and end up doin the wrong thing

also it is not gud to not pay attention or be too carefree over wad she do

because it will end up showing tat u never actually care abt her

eventhough u tink tat u always care for

"yes" you urself do know tat u always care for her and luv her to ur heart

but she will never know what u tink

to me girls are more sensitive abt wad is goin on

even a small incident tat happen or response they will be able

to catch the meaning as they take thing more seriously

than us male

as to me i always remember that girls heart are very fragile

eventhough we see tat some of the girl tend to look tough

abt wads goin on but behind tat face is sumetimes

covering something tat is very fragile to them

i am not sayin tat us guy must always be soft towards the girls

because sometimes girls also do not like tat

but instead we must always know how we should take care of tat

soft fragile heart of the girls

many of us guys always view tat girls are very complicated in the way they tink

yes they are but there are always way to simplify and understand

tat complicated mind of theirs

it is not impossible and hard but it just require time and patience

to get there

~whysoserious~