There's currently a lot of lesson that ive learnt abt myself
toward the issue of liking someone
from the way i view it now
eventhough how much u know abt handling a problem
of relationship we will never be avoid them
cuz the key idea tat problem will always happen in relationship
Like even how i see myself sumtimes tryin to fix the problem
so hard can even end up to have one eventhough there isnt any
the way i see it now is tat we will always have to be patient abt wad
is currently happening eventhough we can sense tat problem is somehow
arising it is best to wait until we get the clear picture of wad goin on
sometimes i even wonder why do i hv to be so emotional attack
and tink negatively abt somethin tat is not even wad it is
i guess wen we rly like someone tis is wen we will always be blind
no matter how much we try to open our eyes and realize it
we will still be havin the problem
maybe because the problem is just there for us to solve it
and tat is how our love is tested
i can always admit that im just afraid to lose the person i cared so much
until she might not even stand for wad i hv been behaving
i guess from the problem arise we can now understand
and apply the mindset where
"in life we will need to be able to balance them in order to have the hapi life"
tis goes the same where relationship will never be a good one
wen there is an extreme to one side
just like if u care so much for the person tis will make u
tink abt all the negative thing and make urself worry and end up doin the wrong thing
also it is not gud to not pay attention or be too carefree over wad she do
because it will end up showing tat u never actually care abt her
eventhough u tink tat u always care for
"yes" you urself do know tat u always care for her and luv her to ur heart
but she will never know what u tink
to me girls are more sensitive abt wad is goin on
even a small incident tat happen or response they will be able
to catch the meaning as they take thing more seriously
than us male
as to me i always remember that girls heart are very fragile
eventhough we see tat some of the girl tend to look tough
abt wads goin on but behind tat face is sumetimes
covering something tat is very fragile to them
i am not sayin tat us guy must always be soft towards the girls
because sometimes girls also do not like tat
but instead we must always know how we should take care of tat
soft fragile heart of the girls
many of us guys always view tat girls are very complicated in the way they tink
yes they are but there are always way to simplify and understand
tat complicated mind of theirs
it is not impossible and hard but it just require time and patience
to get there
~whysoserious~
